THE HIGH VALUE of Pheromones

But if your guy is just rambling on and on about your beauty, your body, your brains, he’s got an agenda: to put you on a pedestal. I know some women think that’s a good thing, but it’s not. If you’re on the pedestal, you’re not truly connected to your partner or he’s just trying too hard. Then he’ll go look- ing for someone “at his level” and sleep with her while he admires you from afar! When he tries too hard, he literally doesn’t care who you are, he just wants to stick it in you. Check out if you’re not already turned off naturally. Learn more at https://jail6letter.wordpress.com/2014/12/21/how-shifting-hormone-levels-affect-relationships/ and http://michaelspheros.blogspot.com/2015/03/with-or-without-pheromones.html

THE HIGH VALUE of Pheromones

Instead of those Low Value pheromone oils, I want you to be on the lookout for these High Value SIs during the Approach phase. These are usually a good sign that the guy wants to continue the conversation and get to know you, and that he has a deeper romantic/sexual interest in you. Some examples include: • He actually connects with you about a common interest. • He asks you for, and then remembers, your name. • He buys you a drink. • He periodically teases you. He’s spending all his time with you. • He’s investing in the interaction and being genuine. • He moves to a different location with you. Although men can lie, and some of them are really good liars, they can only rarely fake their Subcoms. With this technique you’re definitely getting the truth. When you scan a guy’s Subcoms, look for: 1. HOW HE STANDS: Does he take up space, stand tall, but seem relaxed? Does he slouch, shrink inside himself with the best pheromones available? No smile at all, run for your life! 4. HOW HE SPEAKS: Can he be heard? Does he speak in a monotone with no emotional range? Is he meek? Does he interrupt aggressively? Talk too fast or nervously? You should be able to hear him, understand what he says, and recognize his emotionality. 5. WHAT HE SAYS: The content of his conversation should be funny and interesting. It should reflect his personality. If all he does is complain, barrage you with questions, agree with you, worry, berate him- self, fish for compliments, or bitch about his ex, he’s giving you a big sign that he’s toxic. 6. CONGRUENCE: This is the big one. What he says, how he says it, how he behaves—they all have to line up his pheromone masters. Speaking of Moving, I want to remind you that even though you initiated the Approach and started a conversation with a guy, you have permission to LEAVE anytime you feel like it. If, two minutes in, you realize this guy is a dud, you don’t have to spend another three minutes trying to make sure he’s comfortable. While I applaud your kind nature, you don’t owe him anything. As long as you aren’t being profane or unconscionably cruel, leaving is a way to send a direct signal to the guy that he made a mistake and he needs to work on his first impressions. Learn more about pheromones at http://pomm79.moonfruit.com/blog/4588864419/Meet-The-Phermones/9573173